Welcome to my carrd !!
• i am autistic!! so please use tonetags with me so we can avoid confusion!! i also have ocd and adhd
• i am also 18! so please if you want to add me keep that in mind, i would rather you be 16+
• don't make self harm/suicide jokes (unless we are close)
• don't make fun of me for my interests or music taste.
• i do have an occasional typing quirk replacing s with z an example would be "muffinz"
• i do go non-verbal, sometimes it is because i'm overstimulated, angry or sad, and maybe for no reason at times.
• i tend to rant about my special interests/infer to them alot
• i can't understand tone very well
• if you talk to me about your issues i will try and empathize with you the best i know how which is telling you my experience if i experienced the same thing you did! i am just trying to put myself in your shoes :)
• i am very bad at social ques so i might accidentally talk over you... please excuse this:L
• i am normally very sensitive so please do not make degrading jokes towards me (unless i say you can)
• do not say slurs around me(even if you can reclaim them) as they make me uncomfortable, the ones that offend me the most are the r slur or the f slur.
• please do not make any sexual jokes (unless i say you can) as it can be confusing for me to tell if you are being serious or not if we aren't dating.
• if you watch family guy, south park, or any other offensive show, do not talk to me.
ANYTHING I DIDN'T MENTION WILL BE ↓
DNI IF YOU DO THE FOLLOWING:
• homophobic, transphobic, xenophobic, don’t support neopronouns, etc.
• racist, ableist, support nazis
• against self diagnosing with plenty of research done beforehand
• fetishize mlm or wlw relationships
-don't support furries.
• if you are a map (minor attracted person), zoophile, proshippers,
-make fun of someone because you think it's "cringe"
• romanticize abuse or fake mental ilness
Hiii !! my name is bex but u can also call me: bex, gir, benny or vinny close friends call me gray :D please don't use it if you see me in game or infront of people i don't know well/nbr. i use xenopronouns aswell as xenogenders!! i will link my pinterest board about that below if you are interested!
this is all of the things i rly like right now!! i will be adding more soon:D i really hope you took the time to read this and wanna bmf! i'm currently single btw just throwing that out there lollzz
